The phone number or contact information is best asked for after you have gotten her to commit to an activity. For instance, if I discuss how I enjoy clothes, and like to shop at x place, and so on and so forth, when I’m ready to leave I might say something like “Hey, I need new shoes. I’m going to x place next week to see if I can find something.
I excused myself and made a beeline for Sam and the rest the gang. Then I dodged TDL for the rest of the night as I processed what had happened. What I had learned about myself…
Completely with you about resolutions though, it’s a matter of jumping that hill of self doubt isn’t it? If there was any e-quivalent of a hug I could give you right now, I totally would. You shall have to suffice with a smile :D
I think that would seem easier to ask about. Here’s my question, if they turn you down or it doesn’t work out are you going to feel weird about going to them for nails/massages? I’m just thinking, you have to be prepared to switch nail/massage people just in case…but think positive!
Tiny steps along the path to my goal of shaking free the fear. Talking the talk is becoming easier, but physically walking the walk? Not so much.